Pranshu shukla welcome to the Oracle Forum and thank you for your question. There of course is no unqualified answer, however, as Carl Jung said with considerable intuition, 'The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you truly are'.
Engage with life on your own terms, having fully understand who you are, but be gracious and appreciative of the gifts that come your way, no matter how insignificant and certainly behave that way toward others. While giving love to others does not necessarily guarantee any reciprocation, and nor should you expect it or view love as exclusively devoted to romance. Indeed the gift of love to others who need it most, whatever their circumstances, creates a genuine aura of goodness and is of inestimable value in societies as fractured as ours.
Just as blood nourishes the heart which keeps it flowing, so love nourishes and frees the spirit in its own flow.
Loving kindness, compassion, appreciative joy, and calming composure are qualities that hopefully reside in us, essentially we have to know ourselves better to the point of peaceful coexistence and almost certainly we will find these elemants beneath the facade.
And finally to add a tail to a quote from Bhuddist teachings in 'The Dhammapada': 'Overcome the angry by non-anger; overcome the wicked by goodness; overcome the miser by generosity; overcome the liar by truth'......and I say in and amongst you will find love.
But small acorns on the path to wisdom. Redbeck
